Monday 12 December 2011

How I got my big idea...

Over the last few days I've had brain wave. I'm not sure where it came from or what I was doing it just poped into my head. Its as if the idea found me.


Maybe it was a combination of watching something on the telly or reading something on the web. I don't really know it just happened. I guess I was wrapped up in my thoughts and I said to myself, as you do, "Someone should really do something about these silly girls who don't realise how beautiful they are."
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"Why don't I do something?!"


After some umming and ahhing about this and that I grabbed a note pad and started scribbling.


After writing some ideas down it seemed that it might just be possible. I wanted to start a non profit organisation called Inner Mirror, where teenage girls can come chill out, talk and do some fun stuff together and find some confidence along the way. Not bad for a few scribbles.

However I hadn't clue of how I was going to do this so I put my idea out on the web, researched and asked around for help. Some friends loved the idea and are now apart of my little team of "staff".

Although its early stages, I'm getting really excited over the little bits of progress we're making.


Maybe a bit too excited...

I have no idea where my little big idea is going to take me but I can't wait to see where. I'll be keeping you updated on whats happening, for more info see our website: http://innermirror.weebly.com/blog.html 
or follow us on facebook just search inner mirror in your facebook search engine.

Saturday 10 December 2011

Girls on Facebook

I dont know about you but there are some girls on facebook that drive me insane. The other day I got in contact with one of my old school friends. She's about 17 but appears to have no respect for herself and wants the world to think her a slutty slag. I don't know her well enough to know if actually she just puts up an act to get attention or does it for a laugh and really underneath shes actually nice person.
She posts  photos of herself with strappy tops and full make up there's nothing wrong with that but the fact that shes pushing up her boobs just out of shot and making them the focus of the photo is pathetic if I' quite honest and makes me a little sad. Of course loads of lads comment on the photo saying things like "I'll do you anytime" or "I wouldn't mind drinking from them jugs". Yet she finds these comments flattering. For me I would find them insulting; women aren't a sex toy or an object of pleasure. Women have much more to offer the world then just their bodies but often we crave the attention of men and want to be loved and liked by them.
I got me thinking about why girls insult temselves by dressing like a hooker. Maybe they do it for attention or they want to attract a man. But if you're looking for a decent guy who truely loves you then why would you dress like a tart, it might get you some fun and games but it wont get you commitment. Women are like apples on a tree all the best ones are at the top while all the rotton ones fall to the ground. Men may come along to find themselves an apple, some are lazy or can't be bother to climb the tree to reach the good apples and get rotton apple instead. Others worry they will fall if they try and climb up so settle for an apple closer to the ground. But then once in awhile a man comes along who climbs the tree, he doesn't care if he falls, if he does he'll climb right back up as he knows that the best apples are worth it. So girls don't worry if lads don't call out to you on the street or post "sexy" all over you're facebook it doesn't mean you're not beautiful or you'll never find love it. All it means is that a coward or lazy guy is testing to see how high up you are and if he can reach you without climbing.

Friday 9 December 2011

The Big Idea

I don't know about you but I get sick and tired of listening to my friends moan about how they're too fat when they really aren't. It seems that every girl thinks shes ugly or fat in the UK. So I decided I wanted to change that. Thats when I had a big idea. I want to start a non profit organisation called Inner Mirror, that works with teenage girls at personal level to boost their self esteem and confidence. You can check out how's that's going at www.innermirror.weebly.com . However I need to find a team as I don't have a clue what I'm doing and I can't do this by myself. So if there's anyone out there who shares my vision, I would be more than happy to build Inner Mirror with you.