I dont know about you but there are some girls on facebook that drive me insane. The other day I got in contact with one of my old school friends. She's about 17 but appears to have no respect for herself and wants the world to think her a slutty slag. I don't know her well enough to know if actually she just puts up an act to get attention or does it for a laugh and really underneath shes actually nice person.
She posts photos of herself with strappy tops and full make up there's nothing wrong with that but the fact that shes pushing up her boobs just out of shot and making them the focus of the photo is pathetic if I' quite honest and makes me a little sad. Of course loads of lads comment on the photo saying things like "I'll do you anytime" or "I wouldn't mind drinking from them jugs". Yet she finds these comments flattering. For me I would find them insulting; women aren't a sex toy or an object of pleasure. Women have much more to offer the world then just their bodies but often we crave the attention of men and want to be loved and liked by them.
I got me thinking about why girls insult temselves by dressing like a hooker. Maybe they do it for attention or they want to attract a man. But if you're looking for a decent guy who truely loves you then why would you dress like a tart, it might get you some fun and games but it wont get you commitment. Women are like apples on a tree all the best ones are at the top while all the rotton ones fall to the ground. Men may come along to find themselves an apple, some are lazy or can't be bother to climb the tree to reach the good apples and get rotton apple instead. Others worry they will fall if they try and climb up so settle for an apple closer to the ground. But then once in awhile a man comes along who climbs the tree, he doesn't care if he falls, if he does he'll climb right back up as he knows that the best apples are worth it. So girls don't worry if lads don't call out to you on the street or post "sexy" all over you're facebook it doesn't mean you're not beautiful or you'll never find love it. All it means is that a coward or lazy guy is testing to see how high up you are and if he can reach you without climbing.